The difference is either your love story more to happiness or you gain more pain.
It's normal to fall in love.
But it's abnormal if you had never been sad, disappointed, hurt and pain.
Everybody wants to fall in love.
So once u had fall in love, u must be brave to take all the risks.
If u berani untuk bercinta means u jg berani to face everything yang boleh buat u jatuh terduduk, menangis macam org gila and menjadikan u adalah org lain dan bukan diri u.
When u're serious in love, makes u always trust the person w/o any doubt.
Then if org yg kita cinta tu buat salah pon we won't noticed about it even bertahun lamenye die simpan kesalahan itu. Ya Allah teruk bukan?
Sbb ape? Sbb terlalu percaye dan cinta.
That's the problem and sgt dangerous ok!
But better don't put too much feelings on him/her or else you yang merana separuh hidup not sepanjang hidup.
Sbb ape bkn sepanjang hidup? Mayb we'll meet someone that much better than him/her.
But ad jg kta jmpe org yg lebih teruk drpd yg sblmnye but it's ok.
Be patient. Allah will only give us what's best for us .
Experience is the best teacher. Why? Because we learn from mistakes.
But never repeat the same mistakes again ok!
When your age in between 12-17 nie mostly cinta monyet je. But ad je org yg bertahan lamenye relationship diorg cumanye sikit. Tak banyak yg setia. Yela bila masuk matrik jumpe org lain, masuk u jmpe org lain, dh keje jmpe org lain pulak. So camnela nak setia kn?
Selalunye lelaki la camtu kn. Perempuan nie mostly terlebih setia.
But ad jg llk yg setia perempuan pulak sebaliknya.
But it depends on your relationship either short/long distance relationship.
Kalau short distance mmg mostly blh tahan. Tapi if long distance mmg sshla.
Itu belom kawin lagi bolehla kejap putus, kejap sambung balik then putus balik then sambg balik.
Kejap couple dgn org nie, kejap couple dgn org tu.
Tapi if da kahwin xkan nak buat mcm tue lagi.
Now let us learn to stick with only one true love.
If we don't get ready or just wanna play with it better to stop it.
Don't ever play with love.
Or else smpai bila2 pon u'll never meet your true love.
Something to be share with all of u. So think it which stage are your relationship.
STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage. Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love.” You share moments, dates and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking, “This may work out….” and it seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.
*If your relationship ended in this stage — Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too quickly. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both may just need the time to get to know one another better.
STAGE 2 (4-6 months): The Bumpy RoadThings are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personalities not seen before, but still truly care for one another.
*If your relationship ended in this stage — You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing. It doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.
STAGE 3 (7-12 months): The Rocky MountainYou start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguments may occur. Problems with jealously, overprotectiveness may arise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” moments start to decrease, but you feel as if you’ve “fallen in love.” You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work,” and you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself.
*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel as if you’re hurt, depending on the circumstances. You were so sure that that person was “The One.” You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened, a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it.
STAGE 4 (1 year or more): The Long Road1, 2, 3, 4, 5 years, huh? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person. He/she made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still strive to make it last.
*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel heartbroken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason the split occured, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you wouldn’t be able to think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved.”
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