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This was copied from the last post of my lovely supervisor: Prof Bohari Yamin
14th September 2012. CINTA DAN KAWIN.
I always advice my students especially girls that love is not the necessary condition (if and only if) to get married. Love is just a feeling. It can come and go. Some agreed and the rest (probably in love) kept silent. Yesterday, we received an invitation from one of my closed student who is getting married this coming sunday. The point is that she got engaged with Mr.X her former classmate. After I saw a different name in the invitation card I called her why? She said the new boy (only know him for one month) looked for wife but her x-fiancee looked for angles. The irony is all the items prepared for the marriage with her former x-fiancee are now actually for the present future husband. I pray for her everlasting marriage. Hanya Cinta pada tuhan yang abadi.
15th September 2012. He wrote:
Ramai pelajar saya yang berkasih tetapi kawin tidak semestinya dengan yang dicintai kerana cinta itu feeling. Ia boleh datang awal dan kemudian. Yang penting jangan mabuk cinta kerana mabuk membawa kerosakan. Sebagai bapa dan guru saya mengasihi pelajar saya seperti anak saya maka senantiasa mendoakan kebahagiaan mereka. Mungkin ada yang tidak setuju itu hak mereka. Yang penting anak murid saya tahu saya dan menerima leteran saya. Sudah cukup.
As a conclusion, tak semestinya setiap percintaan dan pertunangan itu diakhiri dengan sebuah ikatan perkahwinan. In between of the relationship, there's too many things that will happen. Thanks to my beloved supervisor. He was a very good father, supervisor and motivator. He always giving us good advices. He cares us so much. May Allah bless him with good health. Amin.
Things to remember:
- Do pray and make Dua'.
- Believe in Allah.
- Believe in Qada' and Qadar.
- Allah will always give us what is best for us.
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